Adopt a Family

Although most parents hate to think that they have spoiled the children, many kids have far more toys, clothes, games, and other things than they actually need.  We typically give our children nice things only because we love them and while there is nothing wrong with it, this is a great time to start teaching your child not only the importance but also the joy of helping other kids who might not be as fortunate.

All around the country are people that for one reason or another do not have any family.  It could be that family members died, perhaps they are off serving in the military for the freedom and protection of our nation, or they may all live far apart making it impossible to spend time together at Thanksgiving and Christmas.  This year, talk to your church, school, or research online to find a family you can adopt.

In most cases, this would involve some level of spending but this is certainly money that is doing something great.  If possible, look for a family that has one or more children around the same age as your own.  This way, your son or daughter can shop for the child, having a good idea as to the types of gifts the child would enjoy.  Usually, adopt a family programs will provide you with enough information so you have some direction with shopping.

For instance, if there are children, you would be able to find out clothing size, interests, hobbies, or any special needs.  With this information, you can then focus your shopping in the right direction.  Depending on the level of involvement you are comfortable with, it may be that the gifts are purchased, wrapped, and then dropped off.  For some families, this allows them to hold onto some dignity while for other families, they do not care.

Take Thanksgiving as a prime example.  In this case, you could adopt a family and purchase all the food items needed for a traditional meal.  On the other hand, if the family is someone you know and trust, you could simply have them join your family in the home for a very special and memorable occasion.  In addition to helping the family, you are teaching your child a very valuable lesson and sometimes, building lifelong friendships.

See Also:

Teaching Children About Random Acts of Kindness
The Joy of Giving Back to your Community