Giving Thanks to Good Neighbors

If you have ever lived next to an undesirable neighbor, you are likely much more appreciative of the good neighbors that you are lucky enough to live next to. Good neighbors come in all shapes and sizes; the elderly couple who enjoys reading to your children, the quiet bachelor who always greets your family warmly, the young family who has become close friends with your own family. However they have won you over, the fact is that good neighbors make life much more pleasant, so take the time to let them know how glad you are that you happened to move in near them.

How to thank your neighbors depends greatly on the relationship you have with them. If you are close enough to invite each other over for dinner, your gesture of thanks will be much different than the neighbor with whom you exchange casual pleasantries over the fence between your neighboring yards. Consider specific instances that made you thankful for your neighbor, and that will lead you in the right direction when it comes to thanking them appropriately.

Gifts of food are the universal way to say thank you. Taking it one step further and finding out your neighbor’s favorite dish and if they have any food restrictions will help you give them a thank you gift that is truly heartfelt. A plate of cookies left on the front stoop or a week’s worth of frozen casseroles are great ideas for sharing your neighborly love.

Thanking your neighbor does not need to cost a cent. Give of yourself and your time and you will reap the rewards as much as your recipient will. Has your neighbor been working long hours or caring for an ill relative? One afternoon when he is not home, sneak over and mow his lawn or hang a festive wreath on the front door. Leave a little note thanking him for being such a great neighbor. He will be touched by your thoughtfulness.

See Also:

Teaching Children How to Say Thank You
Teaching Children About Random Acts of Kindness